How To Make People Like You More!

 

From being Pinocchio’s opposite to horsing around, learn some useful techniques for work and play in “How To Make People Like You More”

 10.

 Compliment

 This tip might seem like a no-brainer, but it can prove slightly more complicated than you think.

 Giving compliments is a simple way to make people feel good about themselves, increase their confidence, and can make them like you instantly.

 However, what you choose to compliment them on has a chance of increasing your likeability.

 Remarks about somebody’s good-looks are almost always well-received; but, sometimes they’ve heard these things too often.

 So, even if their eyes are sapphire-blue and their smile is gleaming, opt for compliments that are a bit more in-depth.

 This can take a little more work and conversation, but hey, that’s all part of getting people to like you more.

 For example, if you’re at work and you see your fellow employee struggling with the same project they’ve been occupied with for the last few days, then tell them they’re doing a wonderful job.

 This will inform them that you’ve paid attention to the work they’ve been doing, and they haven’t gone unnoticed, thus making them feel more significant and motivating them to continue going strong.

 Giving positive feedback about things that people have put a lot of effort into is a surefire way to win them over.

 9.

 Mirroring

 This one goes along with complimenting in a way.

 They say imitation is the biggest form of flattery, and they’re not wrong.

 One of the best methods to get people to like you is by mirroring them.

 This doesn’t mean mimic their every move and end up following them into their house uninvited… that might be a criminal offense.

 However, copying small things they do is an easy way to earn their friendship.

 If you don’t know the person very well at all, then doing things like taking a drink at the same time they do or sitting the same way they are are good ways to achieve the mirroring technique; of course, you don’t want to be too obvious, or it could come off as creepy.

 If you are a little more familiar with someone, then doing something like copying their mannerisms is also a solid way to use this method.

 It lets them know that you like them because you like the things they do.

 Doing this also subtly informs them that you’ve been paying attention during your interactions.

 So, don’t prevent yourself from being the dreaded “copycat”; opposed to the adversity elementary students feel toward mimicry, it’s actually a great way to make someone like you.

 8.

 Joke Around

 One of the best ways to make people like you more is to show them your funny side.

 Everybody enjoys a good laugh whether it’s on a first date, during a friendly conversation, or even during an interaction with strangers.

 A simple way to show off your sense of humor is to make a joke.

 Not necessarily a “why did the chicken cross the road” or “knock knock” joke, but something that pertains to whatever you’re doing at the time.

 For example, a great way to begin a speech or presentation, whether it’s for school or business, is opening up the discussion with a lighthearted quip.

 It is a wonderful way to keep things less serious and make people feel more comfortable.

 Plus, if people feel at ease around you, then they will like you more.

 Of course, there are times when joking around would be inappropriate… like if you’re in charge of the eulogy at somebody’s funeral people might not be onboard with any humorous remarks.

 However, in most situations, a friendly joke is a great way to highlight your personality and get others liking you more in no time.

 7.

 What Do They Like

 This tip probably seems pretty obvious.

 One of the easiest methods to get someone to like you more is to ask about them.

 Have you ever been around somebody who only wants to talk about themselves?

 I’m pretty sure we’ve all been there and, more than likely didn’t really enjoy the conversation.

 So, although it’s fine to input some details about yourself during an interaction, try to focus mostly on the person you’re talking with.

 Ask them about their goals and interests and listen attentively to what they’re saying.

 Another great way to gain the friendship of others is to ask more in-depth questions about their likes and dislikes.

 For instance, if they’re telling you about their favorite film, you could ask something like, “Oh, really?

 What’s your favorite scene?” or “What’s your opinion of the main character?” Questions like these leave more room for discussion and will project your interest in the person.

 Plus, this will make you stand out more since most people tend to keep conversations less intensive and don’t often talk about details.

 Making sure to ask them about themselves, or what they love, will make them feel special, and, in turn, they’ll like you more.

 6.

 Body Language

 This is something pretty much everyone who has worked in customer service should already know.

 One of the things they teach you in training for a job with the public is to use open body language.

 Doing this makes others feel welcome to talk to you and makes you more approachable.

 So, when you’re conversing with somebody, pay attention to how your body is positioned.

 One thing to avoid is keeping your hands in your pockets or out of sight.

 If your hands aren’t visible, this could be taken as somewhat threatening by other people; they don’t know what you have in your coat pockets or what you might be carrying behind you back.

 Another thing to do is keep your arms uncrossed.

 Crossing your arms will give you a stern, guarded appearance.

 A third thing to keep in mind is your facial expression.

 Although most of the time people aren’t intentionally making off-putting faces, they often do it on accident.

 Smiling and making sure your brows aren’t furrowed is a great way to keep from looking too severe.

 If you don’t appear very friendly, then people won’t want to talk to you.

 However, if you make sure your body language projects kindness, then others are sure to like you more.

 5.

 Use Their Name

 Another way to get somebody to like you is to use their name.

 This can prove challenging at first because sometimes we feel weird using people’s names when speaking directly to them… or some of us are really bad at remembering names and don’t want to call them the wrong thing.

 This is also a technique people are taught in the customer service industry.

 If employees can recall their customers’ names, it makes them feel as if they left an impact: that they did something memorable.

 Patrons who feel important to a business will continue shopping there, and people who feel like they’re meaningful to somebody else will like that person.

 So, first things first, try your best to remember people’s names.

 In fact, calling them by their name is a great way to store it in your mind.

 Referring to somebody personally makes them feel special and reassures them that they are a unique individual.

 Plus, it sounds much more friendly than saying “Hey, you!” or “What’s up, guy?” and makes the entire conversation feel more intimate.

 4.

 Eye Contact

 Another great option to make people like you more is to make eye contact with them.

 This will make conversations more personal, just like using someone’s name, but can even get people to want to approach you.

 For example, if you have a romantic interest in somebody that you see at a bar or club, making eye contact with them will let them know you’ve been looking.

 Maintaining eye contact throughout a discussion enables the person to know you’re intrigued by what they’re saying.

 If you’re looking everywhere but at them, then they might think you don’t care what they’re talking about, or you don’t find them very attractive… either of which won’t get them to like you.

 However, make sure you break eye contact now and then; if you stare wide-eyed at somebody without blinking or looking away at least a couple of times… well, that will make them uncomfortable, to say the least, and your eyes are bound to dry out at some point.

 So, consistent eye contact is key.

 It also helps to nod and make other gestures to let them know you’re listening.

 As long as they feel their words are appreciated and that you’re enjoying the conversation, you will grow on them in no time at all.

 3.

 Above And Beyond

 Remember the wise words of Buzz Lightyear and make sure you’re going “to infinity and beyond” when trying to get people to like you more.

 You don’t need to go to outer space, of course, but doing something a little extra for somebody does wonders in winning them over.

 This means going beyond expectation.

 For instance, if you’re at work and your boss asks you to print some reports; you could do the bare minimum by getting the reports and simply delivering them, or you could organize them and make sure things are in order to make their job easier.

 Making sure you complete your work to the best of your abilities and going beyond the assigned task will get you noticed.

 This also applies to friendships.

 Let’s say you’re running out to get yourself lunch, and you know that your friend loves the place you’re picking up food from; so, you go ahead and grab them something to eat as well.

 They’ll appreciate the surprise and feel important.

 Plus, they’ll know they mean something to you because they were on your mind.

 Doing small things like this, without people asking you to, will make them like and appreciate you even more than they already do.

 2.

 Be Honest

 One of the best ways to gain somebody’s friendship is to be honest.

 This one should go without saying, but it also means being truthful even if it puts you at a disadvantage.

 For example, if you really want your friend to hang out, but they have more important obligations, then saying something like “don’t worry about it, you should get that done first, and we’ll make plans for another time” will let them know that you care enough to reschedule your meetup.

 Doing this doesn’t necessarily benefit you, but it lets them know you understand and will help retain your relationship.

 This also applies to your professional life.

 Let’s say you’ve just joined the Avon team and you’re trying to sell their products.

 You knock on your neighbor’s door and give them your best pitch, but they say they’re having trouble making ends meet and, although they’d love to purchase some stuff from you, it would be too difficult.

 Instead of trying to sell other products, say something like “Oh I see, that’s much more important for you to focus on right now, I’m sure things will look up soon.” Although you lost a little time and didn’t sell anything, you’ve let them know that their situation is important and reassured them that things would get better.

 Being honest will make others like you more; nobody likes a selfish person.

 1.

 Ask For Favor

 This one might seem a little odd at first.

 Why would a person like you more because you asked them to do something for you?

 Well, if you think about it, then it makes sense.

 Asking for a favor is a great way to let somebody know that you trust them.

 An example would be if you’re going out of town and ask your friend if they can get your mail for you while you’re gone; they will feel important because you picked them out of everyone else to do this task.

 It means that you think they’re reliable and trustworthy.

 Think about it.

 If you’re at work and your manager gives you a special responsibility instead of the other employees, it gives you a sense of importance.

 It makes you feel like you’ve proven yourself dependable enough to be chosen.

 Don’t start asking for too many favors though, as it might make you seem needy or bossy; but, entrusting somebody else with something small now and then is a great way to get them to like you more.

 Comment Question:

 What are some tips you have for getting people to like you?